Featured below are books that Mothers with Attitude recommends, or that have been recommended to us by other parents. For more selections on adoption, visit our online bookstore.
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Real Parents, Real Children: Parenting the Adopted Child by Holly van Gulden and Lisa M. Bartels-Rabb
How to talk with your kids about adoption. |
 | Russian Adoption Handbook: How to Adopt a Child from Russia, Ukraine, and Kasakhstan by John H. MacLean
A detailed guide to the process and the paperwork from an adoptive parent who's been through it all. |
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Toddler Adoption: The Weaver's Craft by Mary Hopkins Best
Help for those adopting kids between the ages of one and three. |
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Twenty Things Adopted Kids
Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew by Sherrie Eldridge
Positive suggestions and advice for improving communication and understanding. |
| ATTACHMENT AND OTHER ISSUES |
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Adopting the Hurt Child: Hope for Families with Special Needs Kids by Gregory C. Keck and Regina M. Kupecky
A look at the challenges faced by families adopting older, more issue-laden children. |
 | Attaching in Adoption: Practical Tools for Today's Parents by Deborah D. Gray
How adoption impacts attachment, and what to do about it. |
 | Can This Child Be Saved? Solutions for Adoptive and Foster Families by Cathy Helding and Foster W. Cline
Help for families dealing with troubled and troubling children. |
 | Ghosts from the Nursery: Tracing the Roots of Violence by Robin Karr-Morse and Meredith S. Wiley
Examines the repercussions of abuse and neglect in early childhood. |
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The Primal Wound: Understanding the Adopted Child by Nancy Newton Verrier
Insight into feelings of rejection and anger adopted children may have. |
| PERSONAL NARRATIVES |
 | Gathering the Missing Pieces in an Adopted Life by Kay Moore
An adoptee tells of her search for her birthparents and offers guidlines for others engaged in that quest. |
 | How It Feels To Be Adopted by Jill Krementz
Interviews with adopted children, ages 8-16. |
 | Out East of Aline: An Adoption Memoir by Rex L. Wilson
A memoir of domestic adoption during the Depression, as the author recounts the events of his early life, including placement in an orphanage at age 4 following the death of his father; his subsequent adoption; and his childhood years in that family. |
 | A Single Square Picture: A Korean Adoptee's Search for Her Roots by Kary Robinson
The author, who left Seoul at age seven to be adopted by a family in Utah, returns to Korea in her twenties to find her birth parents. |
 | Ten Thousand Sorrows: The Extraordinary Journey of a Korean War Orphan by Elizabeth Kim
The hard-knock life of a Korean girl adopted by Americans, and how she survived. |
| CHILDREN'S BOOKS |
 | Amy Angel Goes Home: A Heavenly Tale of Adoption by Kathleen Lathrop
A little angel waiting to be born learns that God has a special plan for uniting her with the parents meant to be hers. |
 | Beginnings: How Families Come to Be by Virginia L. Kroll
Six children who want to know "how they began" hear the story of how their families were formed. |
 | A Blessing from Above by Patti Henderson
A kangeroo with an empty pouch becomes mama to a baby bluebird. |
 | Did My First Mother Love Me?: A Story for an Adopted Child by Kathryn Ann Miller
A little girl listens to a letter explaining the circumstances of her adoption in a book written by a birthmother. |
 | Halinka by Mirjam Pressler
A 12-year-old's narrative of life in a German orphanage in 1952. Read a review here. |
 | How I Was Adopted: Samantha's Story by Joanna Cole
Little Samantha tells her own story from birth through adoption and into happy well-adjusted childhood. |
 | The Story of Holly and Ivy by Rumer Godden
Heartwarming tale of an orphan who longs for a grandmother and a doll who longs for a girl, and how they all come together at Christmas. |
 | Tell Me a Real Adoption Story by Betty Jean Lifton
A curious little girl reacts with fright to a make-believe adoption story, so her mother gives her the true story. |
 | "Why Was I Adopted?": The Facts of Adoption with Love and Illustrations by Carole Livingston
Helps children understand the circumstances of their adoption. |